Married Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Would you rather weekly date night for life or monthly weekend getaway for life?

Would you rather renew vows every anniversary or renew vows every 5 years?

Would you rather joint bank account for everything or separate accounts and a joint one?

Would you rather you plan every date night or your partner plans every date night?

Would you rather go to counseling to strengthen marriage or go on retreats to strengthen marriage?

Would you rather you stay home with the kids or your partner stays home with the kids?

Would you rather relive your wedding day exactly or plan a whole new wedding celebration?

Would you rather more intimacy in your marriage or more adventure in your marriage?

Would you rather go to bed together every night or wake up together every morning?

Would you rather take up a new hobby together or keep your separate hobbies?

Would you rather spend every holiday with extended family or spend every holiday just the two of you?

Would you rather have 3+ children together or have 1-2 children together?

Would you rather move to a new city for adventure or stay in your hometown for stability?

Would you rather retire early and travel the world or work longer and build a dream home?

Would you rather monthly couples massage or weekly date night dinners?

Would you rather go on a second honeymoon this year or plan a surprise romantic weekend?

Would you rather read marriage books together or attend marriage workshops together?

Would you rather renovate a fixer-upper together or build a new home from scratch?

Would you rather weekly relationship check-ins or monthly deep conversations?

Would you rather surprise each other with gifts weekly or surprise each other with dates weekly?

Would you rather host dinner parties for friends or host game nights for friends?

Would you rather learn a new language as a couple or learn to cook a new cuisine together?

Would you rather start a joint business venture or support each other's separate careers?

Would you rather no phones during dinner time or no phones in the bedroom?

Would you rather go on a spiritual trip together or go on a wellness retreat together?

Would you rather leave love notes for each other or send flirty texts during work hours?

Would you rather celebrate monthiversaries or celebrate half-anniversaries?

Would you rather pick date ideas from a jar or plan dates months in advance?

Would you rather strictly divide chores 50/50 or do chores together as bonding time?

Would you rather yearly marriage retreat or yearly romantic vacation?

Would you rather tech-free saturday every week or tech-free evening every day?

Would you rather revisit your honeymoon destination or visit a new destination together?

Would you rather learn ballroom dancing together or learn salsa dancing together?

Would you rather write new vows every year or read your original vows every year?

Would you rather rough it camping in a tent or luxury glamping experience?

Would you rather create a holiday tradition or create a weekly tradition?

Would you rather fancy date nights out or cozy date nights in?

Would you rather individual therapy for growth or couples therapy for growth?

Would you rather volunteer at an animal shelter together or volunteer at a food bank together?

Would you rather wake up early for coffee together or sleep in late together on weekends?

Would you rather buy a beach vacation home or buy a mountain cabin?

Would you rather romantic cruise vacation or all-inclusive resort vacation?

Would you rather couple game night every week or board game nights with friends?

Would you rather take a couples finance class or take a couples communication class?

Would you rather annual vision board for your marriage or vision board for your dream life?

Would you rather speak their love language daily or teach them your love language?

Would you rather attend a concert of your favorite band or attend a music festival together?

Would you rather plant a flower garden together or plant a vegetable garden together?

Would you rather diy spa day at home together or luxury spa date outside?

Would you rather decide dinner together every night or decide how to spend free time together?

Would you rather monthly kid-free weekend getaway or weekly kid-free date night?

Would you rather plan 5 years ahead together or plan 10 years ahead together?

Would you rather learn gourmet cooking together or learn baking together?

Would you rather write a couple's bucket list or write individual bucket lists and share?

Would you rather stargaze on a clear night or visit a planetarium together?

Would you rather monthly hotel staycation or monthly home spa night?

Would you rather recreate your first date annually or recreate your proposal annually?

Would you rather print a yearly photo album or create a yearly digital photo book?

Would you rather visit vineyards for wine tasting or have wine tasting at home?

Would you rather take turns making breakfast in bed or make breakfast together every weekend?

Would you rather learn pottery on a wheel together or learn hand-building pottery together?

Would you rather romantic hot air balloon ride or romantic helicopter tour?

Would you rather weekly fireplace cuddle session or weekly bonfire in the backyard?

Would you rather read the same book monthly or read to each other weekly?

Would you rather monthly surprise for your spouse or weekly small gestures?

Would you rather attend stand-up comedy together or attend improv comedy together?

Would you rather join a gym together or do home workouts together?

Would you rather learn ballroom dancing together or learn swing dancing together?

Would you rather weekly candlelit dinner at home or weekly dinner date at a restaurant?

Would you rather drive-in movie theater date or outdoor movie in the backyard?

Would you rather make a time capsule to open in 10 years or make a time capsule to open on a milestone?

Would you rather wine and paint night together or sip and sculpt night together?

Would you rather pick strawberries together or pick apples together?

Would you rather visit christmas markets in europe or visit local holiday markets?

Would you rather stay in pajamas all day together or have a lazy sunday morning?

Would you rather weekly farmer's market trip or monthly farmer's market trip?

Would you rather learn meditation together or learn yoga together?

Would you rather bicycle ride through the park or motorcycle ride through the countryside?

Would you rather thrift shop for vintage treasures or antique shop for unique finds?

Would you rather make fresh pasta from scratch or make fresh bread from scratch?

Would you rather learn photography together or hire a photographer for a couple shoot?

Would you rather sunset picnic at the beach or picnic in a botanical garden?

Would you rather visit a large aquarium or visit a small local aquarium?

Would you rather visit an art museum or visit a history museum?

Would you rather sunset ferry ride or private boat rental?

Would you rather trail ride on horseback or sunset horseback ride on the beach?

Would you rather watch a meteor shower together or watch a lunar eclipse together?

Would you rather cheese fondue night or chocolate fondue night?

Would you rather romantic jazz bar date or intimate acoustic set date?

Would you rather physical scrapbook of memories or digital scrapbook of memories?

Would you rather hike to a waterfall together or hike to a mountain summit together?

Would you rather learn craft cocktails together or learn mocktail making together?

Would you rather board games and snacks night or card games and wine night?

Would you rather explore a food festival together or explore a wine festival together?

Would you rather learn flower arrangement together or garden together and grow flowers?

Would you rather cross-country road trip or coastal road trip?

Would you rather nap together in a hammock or nap together on a blanket?

Would you rather weekend silent retreat together or weekend digital detox together?

Would you rather build a blanket fort and watch movies or build a pillow fort and tell stories?

Would you rather plan an active retirement together or plan a relaxing retirement together?