Long Distance Would You Rather Questions for Couples
Stay connected across the miles with 100 questions designed for video calls, texting, and keeping your love strong.
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100 Long Distance Would You Rather Questions for Couples
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Would you rather video call every single day or voice call every single day?
Would you rather send a surprise care package or send a surprise handwritten letter?
Would you rather count down every single day or surprise them with an early visit?
Would you rather watch movies together over video call or read the same book and discuss it?
Would you rather visit for 7 days every month or visit for 3 months straight once a year?
Would you rather send physical love letters weekly or send digital love notes daily?
Would you rather sleep on video call together or sleep on voice call together?
Would you rather plan every detail of reunion or let reunion be a beautiful surprise?
Would you rather play multiplayer video games or play virtual board games?
Would you rather virtual dinner date over video or virtual dance party over video?
Would you rather order dinner delivery for them or send them breakfast delivery?
Would you rather no calls, only texts for a weekend or no texts, only calls for a weekend?
Would you rather make a joint playlist of love songs or make a joint playlist of songs that remind you of them?
Would you rather take a cooking class together online or take a language class together online?
Would you rather send snacks and treats or send something that smells like you?
Would you rather stay up late even when tired or wake up early even when sleepy?
Would you rather virtual museum tour together or virtual city tour together?
Would you rather dress up for video dates or coordinate pajamas for video calls?
Would you rather countdown to next visit on phone or countdown to end of distance on phone?
Would you rather send a goodnight voice recording or send a wake-up voice recording?
Would you rather video call while watching sunset or send photos of your sunset views?
Would you rather know their timezone perfectly or know their daily routine perfectly?
Would you rather send flowers or gifts regularly or send surprise letters regularly?
Would you rather video call picnic in your respective parks or video call coffee date at home?
Would you rather read a book aloud to each other or read poems aloud to each other?
Would you rather share live location always or share photo updates of your day?
Would you rather double video date with another ldr couple or double video date with local friends?
Would you rather shared digital album of memories or shared digital album of future plans?
Would you rather send a worn t-shirt or send your perfume/cologne?
Would you rather plan a surprise visit to them or know about the visit in advance?
Would you rather order the same food over video call or cook the same recipe together on video?
Would you rather work out together on video call or do yoga together on video call?
Would you rather send a care package every month or send a big care package every 3 months?
Would you rather play 20 questions over text daily or have deep conversations over call weekly?
Would you rather share a digital journal together or share a google doc of memories?
Would you rather make a physical paper chain or make a digital countdown chain?
Would you rather send daily video updates or send daily photo updates?
Would you rather attend a virtual concert together or have a private virtual dance party?
Would you rather make a playlist for their morning or make a playlist for their workout?
Would you rather know when they're free to call or set daily call times that work for both?
Would you rather mail a usb drive with videos and photos or mail a scrapbook of memories?
Would you rather play virtual pictionary together or play virtual charades together?
Would you rather take a bath while on video call or take a shower while on voice call?
Would you rather buy matching jewelry for each other or buy matching plushies for each other?
Would you rather digital vision board for your future or digital mood board for your dream home?
Would you rather save money for visits together or save money to close the gap together?
Would you rather face masks together on video call or diy manicures together on video call?
Would you rather playlist of ldr love songs or playlist of songs for your reunion?
Would you rather celebrate midnight together in your timezone or celebrate midnight together in their timezone?
Would you rather write a long weekly email update or write short daily text updates?
Would you rather take a video of your favorite local spot or take a video of your daily walking route?
Would you rather morning coffee together on video or evening tea together on video?
Would you rather take a couple's quiz together online or take a personality test together online?
Would you rather collaborative playlist you both add to or individual playlists you share weekly?
Would you rather send voice notes every morning or send voice notes every night?
Would you rather look at the moon at the same time or look at the stars at the same time?
Would you rather cook a meal at the same time on video or order from the same restaurant on video?
Would you rather send a selfie every single day or send a video message every single day?
Would you rather netflix party every friday night or netflix party every sunday afternoon?
Would you rather learn their native language or learn their love language?
Would you rather write a letter for when they're sad or write a letter for when you're apart?
Would you rather create a video call greeting ritual or create a video call ending ritual?
Would you rather draw or paint something for them or write a poem or song for them?
Would you rather digital time capsule to open on reunion or physical time capsule to open on reunion?
Would you rather quiz each other about your relationship or quiz each other about each other's favorites?
Would you rather send photos of your sunset at the same time or video call while watching sun set?
Would you rather order pizza delivery for their dinner or order breakfast delivery for their morning?
Would you rather pin all the places you'll visit together or pin all your favorite spots to share?
Would you rather sing to each other over video call or have a lip sync battle over video call?
Would you rather send flowers to their home or send a plant they can care for?
Would you rather browse zillow together online or plan the decor of your future home?
Would you rather share articles and discuss them or share memes and laugh together?
Would you rather list of things to do in the first week or list of things to do in the first year?
Would you rather learn to code together online or learn to draw together online?
Would you rather send them your hoodie that smells like you or send them a new blanket that feels like a hug?
Would you rather make the same cocktail over video or make the same mocktail over video?
Would you rather start a couple's blog together or start a couple's newsletter for friends?
Would you rather film your favorite local spot for them or film a tour of your room for them?
Would you rather plan a surprise virtual date or send them a gift and reveal later?
Would you rather use a shared photo frame app or use a shared digital photo album?
Would you rather eat breakfast together despite time difference or eat dinner together despite time difference?
Would you rather calendar with photos of you for each month or calendar with countdown to visit marked?
Would you rather play a competitive mobile game or play a cooperative mobile game?
Would you rather share a streaming service subscription or share a spotify family plan?
Would you rather send confetti in an envelope for fun or send pressed flowers from your area?
Would you rather take a relationship course together or take a hobby course together?
Would you rather dress up for a themed video date or decorate your backgrounds for video date?
Would you rather turn a photo of you into a puzzle or make a custom crossword about your relationship?
Would you rather digital jar of questions to answer or digital jar of dares to do?
Would you rather explore a museum's virtual tour together or explore a national park virtual tour together?
Would you rather make a digital playlist for them or record songs for them on a voice note?
Would you rather co-write a short story together online or co-write your love story timeline?
Would you rather play chess together online or play online scrabble together?
Would you rather create a canva scrapbook together or create a google slides memory deck?
Would you rather talk until one falls asleep or tell stories until both fall asleep?
Would you rather research and plan a dream trip or save money together for the trip?
Would you rather send local snacks from your area or send their favorite candy and treats?
Would you rather paint the same thing on video call or paint each other's portraits on video?
Would you rather a special restaurant for every visit or a special activity for every visit?
Would you rather write a letter for their hard days or write a letter for your hard days?
LDR Questions Benefits
Bridge the Distance
Long distance relationships are challenging, but our questions help bridge the physical gap. They create shared experiences and meaningful conversations that keep you connected even when you're miles apart.
These questions focus on shared experiences and future planning — two elements crucial for maintaining a strong connection across time zones.
Create Shared Rituals
Having a regular 'would you rather' session creates a cherished ritual that both partners look forward to. It becomes your special thing — a consistent source of connection.
Strengthen Communication
LDR couples need exceptional communication. These questions encourage playful, meaningful conversation that goes beyond 'how was your day?'
Plan Your Future Together
Many of our long distance questions focus on future plans and dreams — essential for LDR couples who need a shared vision to keep them motivated.
Making Long Distance Work
Long distance relationships require intentional effort. Our questions are designed based on LDR research that shows couples who engage in regular, meaningful communication maintain stronger bonds across distance.
The Power of Shared Activities
Doing things together — even virtually — releases the same bonding chemicals as in-person activities. Our questions create a shared experience that strengthens your connection.
Future Visualization
LDR couples who regularly discuss their future together report higher relationship satisfaction. Future visualization keeps both partners motivated.
Virtual Date Night Ideas
Make your virtual dates special with these approaches:
Video Call Date
Dress up, set the mood lighting, and play 10-15 questions together on video.
Text Throughout the Day
Send questions via text and discuss the answers when you both have time.
Phone Call Fun
Long phone calls are perfect for would you rather. The lack of visual distraction makes conversation more intimate.
